meeting with God in the midst of our days

Last month at the Messy Bun Newsletter we talked about the why behind nourishing your soul with the Best, and today we are discussing HOW. I gathered advice from multiple women in vastly different seasons of life and asked them what it looks like for them. Are there seasons where meeting with God looks different?Continue reading “meeting with God in the midst of our days”

what to do when you’re inside the gate & dying to color outside of the lines

I’m living with a lot of guilt right now. Who am I to be the one with white skin and not marginalized? Who am I to not be the girl that was stolen out of her bed and taken away? Who am I to be the one born in the United States where I don’tContinue reading “what to do when you’re inside the gate & dying to color outside of the lines”

known by our love? or our rants?

How do you set up your process of taking in information? Do you learn about current events from more than one source? Do you block someone the minute they post something that you disagree with? Do you read books or listen to podcasts with more than one worldview? Do you eat dinner with people thatContinue reading “known by our love? or our rants?”

our vows for the kingdom

*settle in, put on “I Get To Love You*, and get ready to feel all the feels* Just me? Okay. One of our first choices in wedding planning was to write our own vows. We wanted every part of our day to be uniquely ours and centered around Christ. Personalizing our vows was a bigContinue reading “our vows for the kingdom”

how to take heart in these troubled times

What a way to begin the year, right? We’ve had a celebrity death among 8 other precious souls, taken too soon. The outbreak of Coronavirus. Controversial half-time shows and award show speeches. Our world is hurting – secretly hoping for Eden although on most days I think we would settle for Mayberry or Stars Hollow.Continue reading “how to take heart in these troubled times”

choosing to be present.

Present is my “word” for 2020. I hesitated to even declare a word over my year because, frankly, God will do whatever He wants. I might make my word “quiet” and He’ll crank up the volume. I might make my word “joy” and be met by the deepest depression of my lifetime. It’s true. Regardless ofContinue reading “choosing to be present.”

the one where we get engaged!

On October 20, 2018 Zach picked me up at our mutual friend’s house where I had spent the night in Des Moines, IA. We had spent the evening before at a good friend’s wedding dancing the night away. After I said goodnight to Zach, the girl’s and I went downtown Des Moines and enjoyed theContinue reading “the one where we get engaged!”

sing a loud song of redemption

I was able to attend my home church a few weeks ago and a lady in the congregation approached me to congratulate me on Zach and I’s engagement. She concluded by saying, “God certainly provides doesn’t He?” Lately I’ve felt guilty when I might lean on the side of “oversharing” in conversations face to faceContinue reading “sing a loud song of redemption”

september good list.

it’s easy to get caught up in the everydayness, in the hustle of these autumn school-laced, work-packed days. here’s how i’m counting the fruit, pausing to take in all that the Lord is doing, processing the beautiful and bittersweet in all this chaos. coldplay playing coffee swigging black finger nails breathtaking light through trees aContinue reading “september good list.”